The North doesn’t really do subtle when it comes to sex. From hidden swingers clubs in industrial towns to queer kink nights tucked inside old mills, there’s a thriving adult scene waiting for anyone bold enough to explore it.
We asked local escorts where they love to go when they’re off the clock, and which venues actually deliver on their filthy reputations. Below you’ll find their top picks, complete with addresses, what to expect, and what kind of night you’re really in for.
Club Alchemy (Birkenhead, near Liverpool)
- Address: Birkenhead (a short hop from Liverpool; exact location provided on booking)
- Best for: Couples and bi-friendly guests who prefer a well-run swingers environment
- Good to know: Dress to impress; check the calendar for couples-only or themed nights; ID required on arrival
We reached out to Mary, one of the many Liverpool escorts who loves spending her time off at Club Alchemy. “I love the atmosphere there,” she says. “It’s friendly and everyone’s so respectful of each other’s boundaries. There are also so many different areas to enjoy! I’ve been there a couple of times, but have yet to explore the whole place. I guess I keep getting distracted by the gorgeous people around me.”
Inside, Club Alchemy feels more like a boutique spa than a backstreet club. There’s a licensed bar, social lounge, cinema area, and a mix of themed playrooms ranging from softly lit couples’ spaces to darker, more experimental rooms for seasoned swingers.
Events are clearly organised by type – couples nights, bi-friendly evenings, and occasional fetish parties – so you can pick exactly what suits your boundaries. Most visitors book online in advance, and parking is free and discreet around the venue.
Cupid’s Swingers Club (Swinton, Manchester)
- Address: Swinton, Manchester (M27 – 13-17 Sutherland Street)
- Best for: Swing-friendly couples and confident singles
- Good to know: Strict consent policy; lockers on site; newbies encouraged to attend ‘intro’ nights before weekends
Cupid’s is one of the North’s best-known lifestyle clubs… a staple of Manchester’s adult scene for over two decades. Inside, the atmosphere is friendly but fast-paced: a large bar and lounge area for introductions, mirrored playrooms, private booths, and even a spa-style wet zone with a jacuzzi and sauna.
Friday and Saturday nights tend to draw the biggest crowds, but midweek events offer a more relaxed environment for first-timers or couples testing the waters. The staff are known for keeping things professional and approachable, ensuring that both beginners and regulars can mix comfortably without pressure. Bookings are recommended in advance, especially for theme nights, as capacity fills quickly.
Club Sodom (Islington Mill, Salford)
- Address: Islington Mill, Salford (check event listings for current dates)
- Best for: Queer and kink-friendly crowds
- Good to know: Not a swingers club! This is a club night built on consent culture and safer-space principles
Club Sodom transforms the iconic Islington Mill into a pulsing, queer-led event where sexuality and art collide. Expect dark beats, drag performances, rope demos, and a crowd that treats boundaries with care and curiosity. It’s more dancefloor than dungeon, but the energy is magnetic — latex, leather, and creativity are all encouraged.
There are no playrooms, yet the sexual tension fills every corner, making it a perfect precursor to a more private encounter later in the night. Check the lineup before attending, as each event has its own theme and visual identity, from gothic fetish nights to neon queer raves.
Maxwell Manor (Chorley, Lancashire)
- Address: Private venue in the Chorley area (exact location provided upon booking)
- Best for: Themed socials, high-protocol femdom events, and private BDSM gatherings
- Good to know: Tickets sell out quickly; strict dress code applies; formal etiquette often observed
Maxwell Manor offers something rare in the North… a refined, invitation-only setting for those who prefer class with their kink. The space hosts intimate events like Decadence, a salon-style evening devoted to female dominance, where corsetry, leather, and obedience are the uniform.
Expect chandeliers instead of strobe lights, polished hosts instead of pushy guests, and an emphasis on behaviour and respect. The guest list is carefully managed, making it ideal for escorts and clients who prefer controlled, elegant settings to the noise of larger clubs.
Ready for Some Fun?
Whether you’re looking to try a new venue or just curious to explore this sex-fuelled world, each location has its own unique energy, so pick the one that suits your mood.
Stay respectful, stay safe, and enjoy exploring the North’s naughtier side.
