Some men live their whole lives thinking that their wives aren’t kinky. But the truth is that so many wives have a very colorful, naughty side. And your job as a man is to know how to bring that side out into the light. However, not knowing how to approach your lady can fail in so many ways. One of the most common mistakes I see in couples who try to spice things up in the bedroom has to do with sex toys. It’s usually the husbands who buy the sex toys. And most husbands don’t know what to buy.
They just go for scary-looking and extra-large silicone dildos, thinking that their wives can take it like their favorite pornstars. What you need to understand is that the sex toys are for your wife. You should get what she needs. And to help you with that, we put together a list of the most common sex toys that are wife-friendly. Get this for her and she’ll love it. The following list is ordered by naughtiness. So start with the first toys and then progress to something naughtier.
Every Woman Needs A Magic Wand
If your wife has never had a sex toy before, then you should get her a magic wand. You should get her this powerful vibrator even if she has had sex toys before. A magic wand is everything a woman needs. It will make her realize that toys aren’t that bad. In fact, she will love her wand more than anything else. And you will see that she can actually squirt under the right circumstances. Most women become way more open after they try a magic wand for the first time. They are more open to toys and even more open to all sorts of other kinks. This toy single-handedly changed the sex life of millions of women.
A Realistic Dildo Is The Next Step
Once your wife is comfortable with the idea of using anything other than what God gave us for pleasure, it is time to get her something she can use in her pussy. Just remember that there’s plenty of time to experiment with all kinds of dildos. What you need to get her first is a realistic dildo. She will feel more comfortable with using something that looks and feels familiar. About the size, you should get her something bigger than your dick, but not too big either. And you should get her a suction cum dildo so that she can stick it to the floor, the coffee table, or the wall when she wants to use it in different positions.
An Elegant BDSM Set
So many ladies have BDSM fantasies, too. But for them, BDSM is more about erotic control and light restraint, rather than brutal punishments. That is why most introductory BDSM sets are mainly meant for the female public. You’ll find in it a blindfold, a ball gag, a pair of leather or material restraints for her hands and feet, a bit of red or black rope, and a flogger or a small paddle. These toys should be used more like accessories rather than bondage equipment. But they are the first step into the training of a submissive wife.
She Might Want A Strap-on
Not all wives are submissive. Some of them are actually dominant. And if the power dynamics in your couple tend towards femdom, I can guarantee that your wife already thought about pegging you. Pegging is one of the emerging kinks among couples these days. But just like men can’t open up about all their fantasies, ladies can’t either. You should ask your wife if she’d like to peg you, and you should offer her the possibility by buying her a strap-on. You’ll be surprised by how much pleasure she’ll get out of it, even though it might seem like nothing is going on for her physically. But mentally, she’ll be thrilled.