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Why is my male masturbator sticky? If you’ve ever asked that question or any other questions pertaining to strokers and masturbators, you’ve landed on the right page!

I’ve gathered the 10 most pressing questions from the experts at Sohimi to help you get the most out of your pleasure sessions.

First, let’s begin with the number one question asked, “Why is my male masturbator sticky?”

1.   Help! Why Is My Masturbator Sticky?

A sticky stroker, pocket pussy, or masturbation sleeve can be a concerning situation. Indeed, it makes you wonder if you should throw it away or find some sort of fix.

Well, the answers aren’t as cut and dry as you might think. That’s because it all depends whether your male sex toy is new, used, the material from which it’s made, and much more.

So, let’s address each potential situation and hopefully find the solution you’re looking for.

My New Stoker Is Sticky, What Do I Do?

There’s nothing worse that receiving a brand-new toy, only to find it feels sticky. However, there’s no need to panic, yet.

  • Check the material from which it is made. Materials like TPE (skin like material), mixtures of silicone and PVC (polyvinyl chloride) or TPR (thermoplastic rubber) can be sticky right out of the package.
  • TPE is a common material for masturbators, although it is porous. However, with proper washing, drying and adding a dusting of corn starch, the toy is safe to use.
  • Silicone is your best choice, as it isn’t porous. However, if your silicone is sticky and has a strong chemical odor, it’s likely mixed with an unsafe material. In that case, you should dispose of the toy.
  • Any masturbator made from TPR or PVC (a jelly-like material) is unsafe to use due to high levels of phthalates. Additionally, these materials can cause reproductive health issues, liver and kidney damage, and skin irritation upon contact. Therefore, it’s best to dispose of the toy right away.
  • Lastly, if you have not used the toy, most sex toy companies will accept a return or give you store credit.

My Used Male Masturbator Is Sticky, What Can I Do?

There are several reasons why your old faithful masturbator is sticky. Luckily, there are a few tricks to resolve the issue.

  • What lube are you using? That could be a huge contributor to your stroker being sticky. Therefore, no matter what material your toy is made from, always use a good, water-based lubricant. That’s because any type of oil or silicone-based lubricant (or lotion) will break down the materials, making them unsafe to use.
  • Your TPE, skin-like stroker is likely feeling sticky because of improper care. You see, this type of material needs a dusting of corn starch after thorough washing and drying. What this does is makes the material feel smooth and silky, instead of sticky.
  • Finally, it’s time to get rid of your masturbator if the above steps don’t help. Additionally, if your stroker is peeling, torn, discolored, or remains sticky, discontinue use right away.

2.   What Happens If I Find Mold on My Masturbator?

Have you ever turned your male masturbator inside out? If not, you may be shocked to learn that any porous material can harbor mold and mildew.

Therefore, if you’ve never turned your toy inside-out for cleaning, you’re likely exposing yourself to a serious health issue.

Frighteningly enough, only 57% of men clean their sex toys after they use them, according to a 2017 survey by a popular adult superstore. More than a third of men never clean their sex toys at all, according to this article in Men’s Health.

So, I know most of you have never looked inside your male masturbator!

As a result, bacteria, mold and mildew can cause the following:

  • Skin irritation and rashes
  • Infections
  • Urinary tract infections
  • Oral and nasal allergy symptoms
  • Rare but serious illness in those with immune disorders

Most importantly, if you find mold on a masturbator that is made from a porous material like TPE, skin-like materials, etc, it is imperative that you discard the toy immediately.

That’s because bacteria has made its way deep into the material and can’t be killed. Therefore, it’s time to go shopping for a new male masturbator.

How To Prevent a Moldy Male Masturbator

The most important way to prevent mold in your stroker, pocket pussy, or other male sex toy is to wash it after every use.

Yes, I said every use!

Run warm water through the sleeve for several minutes.

Then, using a mild soap, wash it thoroughly, including gently turning it inside-out, if it’s particularly deep or not open-ended.

Next, rinse until the water is no longer soapy.

Finally, dry the toy thoroughly with a soft towel, remembering to turn the toy inside-out. In addition, allowing it to air dry before storing is helpful.

More Helpful Tips for Drying and Storage

  • Use tampons or sex doll drying sticks inside to absorb excess dampness.
  • Purchase a sleeve dryer.
  • Use a blow dryer set on cool until completely dry.
  • Wrap your male masturbator in a silky fabric that won’t leave lint.
  • Store in a dry, dark place, away from direct sunlight.

3.   What Kind of Lube Should I Use with a Male Masturbator?

Next time you reach for your favorite lotion or a gob of coconut oil, know in advance that you are literally destroying your sex toy.

That’s right, regardless of what material it’s made from, not using the proper lubricant will degrade your sleeve, causing bacteria to build up inside.

Therefore, always use a water-based lubricant when using any toy in which you put your penis.

Sure, some oil-based lubes and lotions may seem to last longer. However, using another pump or two of water-based lube will keep the glide going and your stroker safe!

4.   Are Male Masturbators Safe?

By and large, male masturbators are safe to use. Plus, there are positive health benefits from using a toy for masturbation.

However, there are some things you need to be aware of before purchasing a masturbator of any other sex toy for men.

First and foremost, be careful of where you purchase your intimate devices. That’s because many websites, even the big A site, can sell counterfeit products which are not safe.

Sure, they may claim they are made of medical grade silicone or phthalate free TPE, but that’s not always the case.

Second, after purchasing a sex toy, make sure it is made from a safe material. Most importantly, look for these signs of unsafe materials:

  • Sticky, oily, or slimy surface
  • A strong, chemical odor
  • Uneven or thin, lightweight material
  • Rough or sharp seams inside or out
  • Any tears or holes
  • Unusually fast degradation of materials

Please note, that unsafe materials can cause serious health problems. Just some of these include chemical burns, reproductive health issues, cancer and more.

In the end, remember, when it doubt, throw it out or return it if it hasn’t been used. And always shop at a safe, well-known site like Sohimi!

5.   How Long Do Reusable Masturbators Last?

Reusable male masturbators, including strokers, pocket pussies, and automatic male masturbators are made to last for years. But that solely relies on how you take care of your toy and how well-made it is.

Again, properly cleaning and drying your masturbator is so incredibly important! That way it doesn’t grow mold, degrade, or fall apart. That includes wiping down any outer plastic parts with a damp cloth.

Additionally, storing your toy in a dry, dark place, wrapped in something silky, will keep it in great shape.

Also, using the proper lubricant will prevent degradation and wear.

Finally, most automatic male masturbators like the Cookie (pictured above) have replaceable masturbation sleeve. That way, if you see any holes, tears or signs of wear, you can toss it and snap in a new one!

6.   Can I Use a Male Masturbator in the Shower or Hot Tub?

Yes! You absolutely can use some male masturbators is the shower, bath, and hot tub. However, you must be able to distinguish which sex toys are waterproof.

To begin, most manual strokers and pocket pussies are waterproof and submersible. That’s because they don’t have batteries, nor do they have charging ports.

However, some vibrating strokers can be waterproof as well. For instance, the Talons 2 in 1 Vibrating Waterproof Penis Trainer, linked above, gives you all the thrills you want in the bedroom, bathroom, or out in the hot tub.

How to Tell Which Sex Toys for Men Are Waterproof

There are a couple of ways to figure out whether or not a male sex toy is waterproof. First is by simply reading the product description and packaging.

Look for the words “waterproof” or “submersible”. Also look for the IPX rating. What the IPX rating does is let you know the difference between splashproof, and waterproof and submersible.

Therefore, a rating of IPX6 is splashproof and IPX7 is waterproof and can be used in the bath, shower and hot tub.

In other words, IPX7 can be used under water.

For example, the Auto Waterproof Suction and Vibration Male Masturbator, pictured above, is rated IPX7, so you can use it for any wet and wild fun you choose.

7.   How Do I Store My Male Masturbator Discreetly?

If you have a roommate, kids in the house, or frequent visits from family, it’s important to have a secure and discreet place to store your sex toys.

Unfortunately, not all of us want to go and spend a premium on sex toy storage cases. So, here are a few ways to store your intimate playthings without breaking the bank!

First, be sure your stroker is wrapped in something that won’t dry it out or cause lint transfer. In this case, something satin or silky works perfectly.

Therefore, wrap your toy in a pair of silk boxers, a pillow case, or a drawstring bag. Then, tuck it away in any of the following places.

  • A duffel bag: Using a duffel bag is a great place to hide your toys because you can toss your gym clothing over top and no one will be the wiser.
  • Suitcase: Not using that carry-on? Put it to use by hiding your stroker inside. Then use your travel lock to keep it secure from nosey roommates.
  • Locking tool or tackle box: Nobody will know your locked box contains your masturbator! Just remember not to send your little brother to retrieve a hammer.
  • A file box: Office file boxes usually contain pretty boring paperwork and documents your visitors don’t want to see. Therefore, it’s the perfect place to hide your toy.
  • Boxes: Boxes are fantastic hiding places as they come in all shapes and sizes. Plus, you can label the box “tax papers” so no one will be interested in peeking. Then simply hide the box under your bed or in the closet.

8.   Will Using a Male Masturbator Affect My Stamina?

Another popular question men often ask is whether using a male masturbator will affect their stamina. To answer that question, I can say yes!

Using a male masturbator can affect your stamina in all the best ways possible!

First, using a masturbator of any type assists you in learning what feels good to you. That can include pressure, speed, intensity, length of stroke and the most sensitive areas of your penis.

Second, and most importantly, you can learn to hold back ejaculation longer, thus increasing your stamina. This is known as edging.

Finally, you can increase your stamina even more my changing things up and using different types of male masturbators. A great example is the DUMBBELL| Auto Hollow 3D Textured Channel 10 Vibration Male Masturbator, pictured above.

9.   Will Having Sex Still Feel Good After Using a Masturbator?

16.5LB Male Masturbators Sex Doll

There is a huge difference between masturbation and having sex with another person. Sure, using a stroker, pocket pussy, or automatic male masturbator feels incredible!

However, being with an actual person involves much more than just an orgasm. To begin, sex starts with a connection, whether that’s a purely physical attraction, or it’s an emotional feeling.

Next, sex includes kissing, foreplay, and a warm, reactive body. And there’s nothing more exciting than sharing that with another human being.

Finally, all of those things combined make the pinnacle of sex feel far more thrilling than any masturbator ever made.

Therefore, even if you have the most realistic sex toy for men created, it will never compare to enjoying sex with your person.

10.                 Do I need a Specific Size Male Masturbator?

The final question on our list of 10 is whether or not you have to worry about size when it comes to choosing a male masturbator. Honestly, if you are of average penis size, most all masturbators will accommodate you comfortably.

However, if you happen to be extra thick or longer, it’s important to look for a masturbator that will fit. For instance, any open-ended male masturbator, like the Cookie automatic male masturbator above, will give you contact from base to tip.

In addition, it’s possible to find strokers that are created specifically for bigger men. Take the Enlarged Size Realistic Textured Sucking Vibration Stroker, for example.

 With an elongated, textured, stretchy sleeve, this automatic male masturbator will fit any penis.

Finding the Perfect Male Masturbator

Now that we have answered all of those burning questions, it’s time to find the perfect first or fifth toy for your pleasure.

Sohimi has a fantastic selection of sex toys for men that includes strokers, manual and automatic male masturbators of all types.

Plus there are other toys to use alone or with a partner.

Best of all, shipping is fast and packaging is discreet, making Sohimi your one stop shop for everything pleasure.

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