Change, they say, is inevitable. Yet, change can be hard to broach sometimes. Especially the sort that involves intimacy in relationships. Suppose you’d like to try something new in your relationship like adult accessories, how should you approach the subject with your partner?
Request, Don’t Criticize
Every relationship isn’t the same. It is not appropriate to judge yourself by what others are doing. Hence, find out if your partner agrees that you really need adult accessories to spice things up in your relationship. If they disagree, do not criticize them. And if he or she is the one making the request do not be quick to think they consider you inadequate. Sometimes asking a question about how your partner feels about adult accessories is best. Other times simply showing them a photo of an accessory and watching how they react can provide a clue as to your partner’s thoughts.
Be Clear And Direct
Let your words be clear and direct to the point about what you want. The more confidence you display in asking to incorporate adult accessories in your relationship the better. Confidence is infectious. Your partner is likely to be more receptive if he or she senses that you are sure of what you want. This isn’t the same as being rude or unduly forceful. Some people are shy by nature and find using colloquialisms better than using the actual tags. If your partner is this way, go with it, and don’t judge. Using the tags or names your partner uses can help him or her relax and make the whole discussion a success.
Avoid Being Rigid
Keep in mind that your partner may not see a portion or the entire issue, your way. Be ready to compromise. Multiple things can be true at the same time. When broaching the issue, avoid going in with an already made mind. If you are already set on a decision you single-handedly made, it would be difficult to recruit the support of your partner. For instance, instead of presenting just one type of accessory, present several, mentioning what you know about them. If possible, give your partner time to do his or her own findings.
Shop Together
We all explore together as we start the process of introducing adult accessories. Choose to go shopping for things like dildos in the UK as a group to create a cozy environment. Both parties can actively contribute to increasing the closeness of your relationship with this cooperative technique, which guarantees open communication and mutual agreement. Take advantage of the opportunity to strengthen your relationship by enjoying and remembering the process together.
One Step At A Time
Do not delay in trying the adult accessories. But also do not rush your partner. Ease them into this new phase of your intimacy slowly.
Final Thoughts
As it’s been said already, change is inevitable. But forced change is the worst kind. Relationships thrive where there is mutual understanding hence be patient with your partner. And if he or she rejects the notion, wait till another time and try again.
